Most men are fixated with having big penises and go every length to try and increase the size and length of their manhood.

With the advent of penis enlargement creams, pills and other medications many men are obsessed with having big strong rods to ride their lovers.

Self acclaimed sex therapist, musician and actress Stephanie Benson says that the size of ones rod does not matter when it comes to the issue of sex.

She compares having sex with that of child birth saying that during labour the most important thing for the mother is to push out the baby through any means possible.

Immediately she passes through all the pain barrier to bring the baby out she simply forgets about the excruciating pains she went through.

According to Benson, all women require during sex is to reach orgasm and do not care the size of the rod.